NATURAL HAIR AND BLACK MEN
*NAPPY TALK*
NATURAL HAIR AND BLACK MEN
HAVE YOU EVER RAN ACROSS THE FACEBOOK, TWITTER, OTHER ARTICLES MADE BY BLACK MEN DOGGING WOMEN WITH NATURAL HAIR OUT?? THE POST THAT SAY, “I DON’T DIG NAPPY HAIR”, OR “NATURAL HAIR IS UGLY”, OR “SHE BETTER NOT TRY TO HOLLA WIT SOME NAPPY @$$ HAIR!!” WTH!!! WHAT IS UP WITH SOME OF THESE MEN OUT HERE?? THE RESPONSE I HAVE GOT SINCE I BEEN NATURAL SINCE THE END OF ‘08 HAS BEEN WONDERFUL. I SURROUND MYSELF AROUND LIKE MINDED MEN THAT KNOWS THE VALUE OF A WOMAN WITH NATURAL HAIR AND APPRECIATES HER STEPPING OUT OF “THE NORM”. MY MAN ALWAYS SUPPORTED MY CHOICE OF GOING NATURAL BUT HE WAS DOUBTFUL THAT I WOULD GO THROUGH WITH IT BECAUSE I WAS SOOO ADDICTED TO THAT “CREAMY CRACK”…LOL. HE HAS BEEN BY MY SIDE THROUGH THE TWA, TO AFRO PUFF, TO DREADS, TO FADE, TO ME TRYING TO GROW IT BACK OUT….OR BACK TO FADE…I THINK…LOL…BUT THE POINT IS, HE HAS BEEN THERE. I HAVE A FRIEND THAT WANTS TO GO NATURAL BUT HER DUDE LIKES LONG SILKY HAIR AND WILL BE MAD IF SHE WENT NATURAL….WHY DOES IT HAVE TO COME TO THIS?? WHY CAN’T SHE EXPRESS HER INDIVIDUALITY AND ROCK WHAT EVER SHE WANTS?? WE DO NOT TELL A MAN WHAT HE CAN WEAR AND NOT WEAR….WE SUPPORT THEIR DECISION BECAUSE WE KNOW THEY ARE GONNA DO IT ANYWAY. GOING NATURAL IS A STATEMENT. IT IS SAYING I DO NOT WANT TO BE WHAT YOU THINK I SHOULD BE….I WANT WHAT I WANT FOR MYSELF. I WANT TO BE AN INDIVIDUAL. I WANT TO GO BACK TO WHATS BEEN NORMAL TO ME SINCE I WAS BORN….I WANT TO BE NATURAL. I THINK MEN SHOULD BE WAY MORE SUPPORTIVE TO THE WOMEN THAT CHOOSE TO GO BACK. IT IS A VERY LIFE CHANGING DECISION AND WE NEED YOUR SUPPORT. SO MEN, NEXT TIME YOU WALK TO A GIRL THAT IS NATURAL, TELL HER THAT YOU LOVE HER HAIR OR YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. MAKE A SISTAS DAY TODAY…LOL
